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I wanted to talk today about a really easy hack to call in your manifestations. I learned this from the book The Witch’s Way to Wealth by Jessie DaSilvia. This is also mentioned in Creating Money by Sanaya Roman. (both great reads)
Often when we want something, we think that thing will give us the feelings we want in return. For example, if I have lots of money, I get to feel freedom, expansiveness, luxuriousness, etc. Or, if I have a romantic relationship I get to feel whole, complete, loved, and fulfilled.
We think we have to get the thing in order to feel the things that we want. We take the job, in order to get the money, in order to buy the things, so that we can feel… xyz.
But we have it backwards. We confuse the form with the essence of the thing. In order to manifest the things we want, we have to go inside of ourselves and feel those feelings first.
If you don’t already feel fulfilled, those other things won’t fulfill you. And you won’t appreciate them anyways, and you won’t keep them. Then you’ll be on the next cycle to chase the next thing. And on and on it goes.
So here’s a simple technique to calling in your manifestations: think of something that you want. Whether it’s money, a new relationship, a new house, a baby, a new career, etc.
What are the top 3 feelings you want to feel from having these things? Write them down. And what things can you do right now to feel those feelings or experiences that you want?
Let’s do some examples.
Money
What top 3 feelings would money give you? Write them down. Once you have them written, think of ways that you can foster those feelings already, without needing money to fulfill them.
For example (for me): 1. Freedom 2. Confidence 3. Gratitude
The things I can do to help with this - for freedom: having a flexible work schedule where I can listen to my body makes me feel free.
For confidence: doing my meditation practice, EFT tapping, and journaling help me feel confident. So does any form of spiritual growth (even though it hurts at first).
For gratitude: practicing gratitude when I wake up and writing it down before bed helps too.
A Romantic Relationship
What top 3 feelings would a romantic relationship give you? Write them down. Once you have them written, think of ways that you can foster those feelings already, without needing romance to fulfill them.
Mine are: 1. Love 2. Fulfillment 3. Expansion/Growth
Ways to help foster this: I can do my EFT tapping, affirmations, and spiritual practice to feel love. I can send love to the neighbors while I walk Rocco, my dog. I can pet Rocco.
I can find fulfillment in my dharma and soul’s purpose, pretty much anytime I think about coaching, writing, podcasting, energy healing, or even dog sitting, I feel fulfilled.
And any time I express myself, specifically through writing or speaking, I feel expanded. Or, whenever I read a spiritual book and learn new things (which is always), I feel expansion.
A New Home (Or your existing one!)
What top 3 feelings would a new home give you? Once you have them written down, think of ways that you can foster those feelings already, without needing the new space to fulfill them.
And if you don’t want a new living space, you can use this method for your existing one.
Mine are: 1. Coziness 2. Brightness 3. Beauty
Ways to foster this: well, my house is already all of these things but if it weren’t – I could work on adding more pillows or blankets to the couch, opening windows or spending time on the front or back porch for the experience of natural light (or go to a park nearby if outdoor space is not available to you) and use bright colors to uplift the space.
I could even add houseplants to the house, because that fulfills my need for beauty.
A Baby
Mmmm babies. Okay what top 3 feelings would a baby give you? Write them down. Once you have them written, think of ways that you can foster those feelings already, without needing the baby to fulfill them.
Mine are: 1. Closeness 2. Unconditional love 3. Reciprocity
Ways to foster this: Practice closeness with myself in spiritual practice or yoga or during times of healing and growth. I can spend time with close friends & family.
Same actions could be used for unconditional love, or even remembering that Rocco already offers this to me. Same could be said for reciprocity with Rocco because both dogs and babies give back to us, even if we sometimes forget because we give so much to them.
Do you get the point? Removing the Need
Do you also see how what you want already exists inside of you and perhaps even in front of you? In the example of something you already have (like a house), if you practice these methods, you may even improve what you have and then you don’t need the new thing.
Try this for something you want to replace, like a car, a job, or something else. Then see if you even need the new thing - you might be able to fix/upgrade the old 🙂 who knows?!
Or you do manifest something new, and it was better than you even imagined because you were ready for it.
When you realize you already have the feelings you need inside, you get to claim those now, and you don’t need the manifestation to do that for you.
But the law of attraction states that like energy attracts like energy, so once you’ve removed the need, guess what? It manifests anyway.
I love a good paradox, don’t you? 😀
Wrap-Up
I hope this post gives you a really simple, effective, easy way to get clear on the essence of what you want, without getting too attached to the form. And I hope it makes you realize that everything you want already exists inside of you. And that you are worthy of all of your desires that are for the highest good!!
Thanks so much for reading and joining me! Please feel free to share this article!
Lots of love,
Angeli
“What you think, you create. What you feel, you attract. What you imagine, you become.” ~ Anonymous
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