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Today’s post is about how to find clarity when you are feeling confused - especially if you are at a crossroads in your career.
This Post Is For You If:
You’re at a crossroads in your career, wondering what’s next
You feel frustrated, bored, confused, or anxious because you sense a change is coming
You’ve tried talking about this with your friends and partners, but they don’t have great answers for you
You’re tired of feeling lost and unclear about your next career moves
You’re willing to try something new and access clarity
The trick of finding clarity is to align with your Highest Self. Let’s talk about the Highest Self.
Why Should You Learn How to Align With Your Highest Self to Find Clarity?
Your Highest Self is the wisest, most embodied version of you. It’s the part of you that’s achieved everything you could ever dream of (and knows that you can do it!) It’s the part you need to tune into to create meaningful work you love. Without it, nothing great is possible 🙂
When we created our careers as younger people, we picked them based on largely external factors - like schooling, salary, prestige, cultural acceptance, parental acceptance, benefits, and more. Essentially, we created our careers based on ego.
Creating a career based on ego means your Highest Self wasn’t factored in. But your Highest Self is the part of you that knows exactly what would be satisfying, purposeful, and fulfilling to you. It knows every step you need to get there so that you can create meaningful work you love, from your soul’s purpose. It knows how to attract and manifest abundance. It is abundance already!
It’s worth every ounce of energy to get in touch with this part of you, because it contains all the keys to unlocking your life!
What is Aligning With Your Highest Self?
Let’s first talk about what is your Highest Self. The Highest Self is the part of you that is connected to Source energy, and hangs out in a non-physical realm. It is the most powerful part of you and is full of so much energy, that the soul (the smaller part of the Highest Self) has to reduce itself down and slow itself down to fit into a 3D body. (Read my e-book on this here).
The Highest Self is the part that is aligned with love, truth, compassion, gratitude, and joy - all the highest vibrations. It is the truth of who we are, stripped of ego and ego identifications.
Aligning with your Highest Self means tuning into that part of us that is wise, clear, and knows what your next steps are and what all you are meant for. That could be as simple as consciously choosing to feel present and grateful, meditating, or it could include the deep inner work of releasing limiting beliefs and healing past traumas. These steps allow you to access a greater portion of your soul with more ease.
When you align with your Highest Self, you know that you are accessing your most authentic self. You are the most expressed version of you, and everything you choose and do is for the greatest and highest good. Aligning with your Highest Self means clarity is on its way!
How to Align With Your Highest Self to Find Clarity
I’m going to walk you step-by-step on how to align with your Highest Self.
Sit in meditation and breathe: Whenever you are present, you are accessing your Highest Self. All thoughts begin to cease, and that presence with your breath is where the power to create worlds resides.
Ask a question: If you are lost, confused, or anxious for answers in your life, once you are in a still place, ask your Highest Self a question. “What is my purpose?” “What is my next step in my career?” “How can I serve others for the greatest and highest good?” “What would you have me do?”
Express gratitude: Breathe or express gratitude towards your Highest Self for guiding you and for providing the answers in the exact right divine timing. Act as though you already have the answers (even if you didn’t get one right away). You can say, “It is done, it is done, it is done.”
Let it go: You might receive an answer right away, but chances are you won’t. That’s normal. There’s an exact right divine timing for your answers and next steps to come. Letting it go allows the universe to work its magic and do its part to help you.
Receive the answer: Once you’ve let it go, that’s usually when you get an answer. So don’t forget to let it go!
Take action: Your Highest Self has given you an answer and now it’s time do something with it!
PS - you might need to do these steps a few times 🙂
PPS - you can also do this with journaling. You can write, “I call upon my Highest Self to write to me, through me, to reveal anything I need to know for my Highest Good.” (adapted from the book, Intuwitchin by Mia Magick - great read!)
What Happens If You Align With Your Highest Self for Clarity?
You realize that the answers were inside of you all along. You have the power to access this side of you that knows. Your life starts to open up towards more authenticity, expression, creativity, love, gratitude, peace, and joy, knowing you are living in alignment with your soul’s purpose. And, there’s a divine timing to when clarity comes through.
Here’s the thing about confusion. It goes hand in hand with clarity. When there is confusion, that means clarity is on the way. We live in a world of duality. We can’t appreciate the light without the darkness. Everybody goes through confusing times at one point or another. Learn to tolerate the confusion, and clarity will be on its way.
I’ll tell you a story. When I didn’t know what my purpose was, I felt confused, lost, frustrated, and burned out. I wanted to know it so badly so I could take steps to express it and create new work already! But the energy used to create the old work paradigm has to shift in order for you to create something new, that’s sustainable.
Meaning, I had to grow into the person who could understand and realize that this new work would be created from a more “feminine receiving energy” (meaning let go and receive) versus a “masculine push”. That’s only way I would not burn out again. And it took time to shift into that new energy. So while there was confusion, clarity did come. And it will come for you too!
And FYI - I still have periods of confusion now — but clarity does always come!
Mistakes to Avoid:
Continuing to ask others the questions instead of listening to your own internal voice: You have the answers inside of you, there are many different ways to access this. I recommend learning about your Human Design (you can learn this through my book too) to be able to best access intuitive information so that you can hear your own internal voice easily. Truth be told, in some cases, some of you (a small portion!) might benefit from talking out loud to others solely to hear your own voice’s excitement or lack thereof. For most of us, the answers can be directly accessed inside. Again, learn about your Human Design to know what applies to you. Either way, your Highest Self knows how to guide you.
Continuing to cling to the need to know: When you feel anxious or lost, it’s easy to keep pressing for answers. But the universe can’t answer you if you keep clinging. You have to let it go. If you placed an order at a restaurant, and then stood by the kitchen window checking your watch and impatiently watching the workers, guess what would happen? They’d be so annoyed with you and take longer to give you what you want. The universe is kinda similar. Micromanaging it never works! Learn to let it go. Go do something joyful. The answers will come! I promise.
Refusing to take action once you know: Once you have the information, not acting on it will make you feel worse! It will feel like you’re suppressing energy. Intuition gets revealed one step at a time. You may not even know where this action will lead you. But you have to be willing to try. Take the action and see where it leads you! It might surprise you, and it could be better than you imagine. And if it’s not, it just means there’s something for you to learn for you which will turn into a gift, eventually 🙂
Wrap-Up
I hope this post helps to remind you can find clarity through connecting to your Highest Self! You are more than capable of accessing this very powerful side of you that knows and holds the answers and all the steps. This energy creates full worlds of love and abundance and meaningful work! It’s worth taking the time to get to know this side of you.
It may lead you to some unexpected places. Some of them might be painful at first, allowing you to grow. But all of them will lead you to the right place where you get to be your true self, create meaningful work AND abundance, and feel really good about your life.
Thanks for reading and listening along!
If this resonates with you, I’d love to invite you to my workshop: How to Create Meaningful Work You Love.
We’ll explore a 6-step proven process to help you find clarity for your purpose and next steps to creating meaningful work you love. Details and sign up are here.
I’d love to see you there.
Lots of love,
Angeli
“When you know yourself, clarity comes as dawn breaks through the darkness.” – Lila Nova
*PS - Looking for clarity in your next steps in work? I’d love to invite you to a workshop I’m hosting for professional women in their 30s and 40s who are wondering what their next steps are called, “How to Create Meaningful Work You Love: A Workshop”. For those who want more than just a paycheck. It will be Live on Google Meet. For details and to sign up, click here. It is no pressure at all. This is for the ones who feel ready to go to the next level <3
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