Contrast... So Hard But So Necessary!
Greetings spiritualists and welcome back! 🙂
I honestly didn’t think I’d have it in me to write to you this week, I’ve been going through some dramatic shifts in my way of being, and was feeling super emotional earlier in the week. So if you also were feeling this way this week (since we are all connected), please know you are not alone!!
My biggest realization from this most recent situation I was in, is that contrast is necessary.
What is Contrast?
We live in a world of duality. Light and dark, we need both. Contrast is when we go through something we don’t want. We all on some level create unwanted things at different points in time. When we go through something like this, we actually open ourselves to create what we really do want!
This is a helpful concept to know for the law of attraction and manifestation.
Why is Contrast Necessary?
We can only experience who we really are and what we really want once we’ve experienced who we are not and what we don’t really want. We come to this planet of amnesia to forget who we really are, to then remember who we really are (our essence) and be able to co-create an amazingly authentic and enjoyable life!
What Are Some Examples of Contrast?
Intuition
If you’ve ever gone against your intuition, you’ll find yourself kicking yourself a lot afterwards. That’s what happened to me when I moved out of Portland for a boy and a job I did not like (many years ago)! More recently, I was blocked from following through with a strong intuitive decision by others in my life.
It made me realize how important it is to be surrounded by people that understand the importance of intuition, allow me to communicate what I “know” to them, and to be given the space to trust and follow through with my own intuition. There’s a method to my madness that is going to be highly beneficial for everyone :)
Relationships
It is no surprise that for many of us, dating is a process. When you’ve dated a number of people, and experienced what you didn’t want (examples: emotional avoidance, lack of commitment, emotional manipulation, control or abuse, etc. etc.) it sets you up to manifest what you really do want.
For example, from those experiences you might come to believe that you can have a stable, committed, spiritual romantic partnership and dating experience! (This is from personal experience!)
Money
When we experience financial poverty, whether that is directly or through the experience of our upbringing or even familial lineage, we send out rockets of desire to the universe for financial wealth and prosperity. Personally, I grew up with hard working immigrant parents who made very little money when we were younger, and I saw how much they would stress about money.
I even went through a long period of not making substantial amounts of money after I quit my job in September 2022. I had to reprogram how I felt about money and my relationship with money has greatly improved!!
Health
If you experience health issues, even mental health issues, that can be a really trying experience! All we want as humans is to feel better. But when you do have glimpses of your health or mental health improving, it’s so empowering and freeing! Some of us were meant to move past our health and mental health issues in order to experience amazing health!
On the other hand, some of our souls chose to experience incurable health or mental health conditions to see what living life would be like from that lens. So please use your intuition on which situation sounds more resonant to you.
Career
Perhaps you’ve worked lots of odd jobs in high school or college. Perhaps you’ve tried to work in a career that you realized wasn’t that meaningful. Then all of a sudden, you are starting to think about what it would be like to work in a field that lights you up, that expands your soul, that helps other people actually move the needle in their own life!
All of this is born from you working those previous jobs. You wouldn’t have known what you wanted until you experienced what you didn’t want.
In all of these examples…
You went through something that shaped you and informed your new life aspirations. But the thing is, you can’t manifest new things if you, as a person, stay the same. If you bring your old beliefs and old ways of being with you, you will manifest the same things over and over again.
If you believe men are controlling, narcissistic, noncommittal, and blaming, or it’s not possible to meet a man (or woman or gender fluid person) who is not spiritually aware, that’s what you’ll see.
If you believe that you are doomed with money, that’s what you’ll see.
If you believe you’re SOL with your health because some doctor told you you were a hot mess, that’s what you’ll see.
If you believe you can’t be paid for your spiritual gifts and enjoy great financial prosperity, that’s what you’ll see.
Do You See What I’m Saying?? So What To Do?!??!????
It all goes back to doing the inner work of healing your limiting beliefs, and TRUSTING (again because you haven’t seen it yet) that you are worthy of these manifestations.
I’m coming out with an e-book on releasing limiting beliefs (date TBD).
But what I wanna say is, it is totally possible to do better, manifest better, and feel better in your life. And it all goes back to looking internally and seeing what needs to shift.
Don’t wait for life to prove it to you. Believe it now, and you’ll see it come to fruition.
You got this!!!
Sending lots of love!!!
Angeli
“The greater the contrast, the greater the potential. Great energy only comes from a correspondingly great tension of opposites.” ~ Carl Jung
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