Loving Where You Are Right Now
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Today’s topic is about loving where you are right now. So often in our lives, we look at the things we want to change or improve. We can sometimes look at ourselves as projects to be “fixed”, but that’s just simply untrue. Don’t get me wrong, we could all use a little healing touch. And even if there are things that could be improved, the best way to start about making a change is to love where you are, right now.
Relationships
Let’s say you want to improve a relationship. You’re not getting along, or you’re feeling drained from the relationship. Rather than finding fault with the other people and wishing for them to change, look inside of yourself first. What can you still love and appreciate about the other person? How can you love yourself more so that you can give love to that person better?
It’s a Law of Attraction technique. When you choose to see someone in the same light your Highest Self would (through the eyes of love, appreciation, compassion, and kindness), you amplify those qualities of that person (and yourself). You are also raising your vibration, which means you are setting your attraction point to bring in more loving qualities of that person.
Many times, this will be enough to help fix the situation. Often, just setting an intention in the name of love can help you improve that relationship.
A Story
I did this once, a while back, when I worked at the VA. Right at the beginning of the pandemic, a new scheduler was assigned to my team. She had ginormous job of changing all of my face-to-face patients to telephone or video appointments. It came with its own mishaps along the way. We weren’t getting along and things weren’t smooth at all.
I read in a book at the time to write her a love letter. And so I did. I think I did it twice actually. I never sent these letters to her. After setting the intention to see this person in love, I made the effort to speak to her more lovingly and to see her as my ally. Day-after-day, and month-after-month, we started to gel better. Our work mishaps pretty much dissipated. We really started to see eye-to-eye with love and mutual respect.
Before I knew it, she was vacationing and bringing me back gifts and souvenirs. Then I started doing the same. She’d bring me free make up lol. We became really good work friends!!! And her husband also worked in our clinic, so the three of us were just gelling in love together. It was amazing 🙂
Rather than continue to send “mental daggers” to this person, I shifted my vibration, she met me there, and our relationship dramatically improved!
Career/Work
And I’d say the same of a career that feels like it’s not working. Try to love it first, really give a good effort. And see if that helps things work out for you.
Perhaps you start to see miracles at work - receiving compliments, your clients or patients putting in a good word for you. Maybe you get to offload a task that was no longer exciting you. Maybe you get a raise or a bonus for your good work!
Maybe a new position gets offered to you, a promotion, or you find another job that was a better fit for you. Perhaps you start your side hustle or a new business venture. Follow your intuition!!
Your Body
Maybe you do this for your body too. If you want to improve your health, try loving your body exactly the way it is. It deserves it! It houses your soul and takes you everywhere in life 🙂 You couldn’t get anywhere on Earth without a body! Be grateful for what it does for you!
Even if you want it to be healthier, when you’re grateful for what you have right now, it makes you a magnet for even more of what you want for the future 🙂
Perhaps that leads you to cook foods that agree with your body. Maybe it leads you to eat more intuitively for your mind-body type, or eat more mindfully in general. Maybe it helps you to heal any underlying emotions that have been stuck there.
Maybe it helps you develop a new relationship with your body, one built on love, compassion, and respect!
Because did self-criticism ever really work here?????
Money
Maybe you do this for your bank account. You really look at all your accounts, even all the loans and debts you might have. And you still choose to appreciate what abundance there is. That shift in vibration alone can produce some magical results!
Summary
My point is, nothing really changes if we resist it. If we all look outwardly and find others or external circumstances to be the problem, then we’re not taking responsibility and nothing evolves.
If we look inside of ourselves, we can find gratitude in everything, even hardship. And if we choose to love on things, that can often be enough to shift things in a positive direction.
If we gave it our best effort to still love the things we have right where they are right now, and it still just don’t feel like it’s in alignment with your soul’s path, then that’s okay too.
Not everything has to have a “happy ending”. And maybe we can redefine what even is a happy ending. A happy ending to me is living in alignment with your soul, period. That’s always a win to me.
Part of being a human is growing and changing, re-evaluating what works for you, and calling in what you’d like to see more of!
Evolution is revolution, baby.
Is there something you want to change in your life? Have you tried loving on it first?
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Have a great weekend!
Love,
Angeli
“At any moment, you have a choice, that either leads you closer to your spirit or further away from it.” – Thich Nhat Hanh
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