How to See Your Spiritual Gifts As Valuable and Necessary
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In this post, we’re going to talk about our God-given gifts and what is the purpose of having them. This post is especially for the coaches, healers, and teachers who know they have a gift and feel unsure about if their gift is really necessary or valuable on this planet.
If you’ve been following me, you’ll know I worked as a clinical pharmacist for 5 years (and spent 11 years in the pharmacy world total!), started this blog, and quit my job in 2022. My journey has been one of remembering what my life’s purpose is and then expressing it in various ways. This blog is one of the ways.
As I’ve continued onwards, I’ve gotten certified in The Emotion Code energy healing, as well as become a Certified Dharma and Spiritual Life Coach.
Growing up in this amnesic world, we come in forgetting our soul gifts. We move through the world’s illusions, being conditioned to “be like everyone else” or fit the molds that our parents, upbringing, or culture designed for us.
It’s in the contrast of experiencing who you are not, that drives you to figure out who you really are, and what are your natural gifts.
But it’s also like, having gone your whole life without realizing what your true gifts are, it’s sometimes hard to believe that your gifts are really gifts and meant to serve others. Because they come so naturally to you, and it’s something you never had to think about before.
Naturally, I am a coach, I tend to say things, ask questions, and inspire people to think and dream in new ways. As an empath and an intuitive, of course I’m an energy healer. It probably seemed obvious to others, but it took me 35 years to realize that 😂
It’s not like we grew up in a world where coaches, healers, and spiritual teachers were seen as “essential”, so it’s a mindset shift to see it yourself first.
But the way to create aligned clients is by seeing, valuing, appreciating, and adoring the gifts that you do have (as well as your prices, if you are an entrepreneur).
Your gifts are essential - they’re the reason you’re on this planet. If they weren’t essential, you wouldn’t be here!!!
So I Wanted To Tell You a Story…
I had a dog sitting client recently. I’ve watched this dog before, and I’ve done one energy healing session on her. She has a lot of trauma and associated anxiety from her past. She’s really timid, she doesn’t like to play if at all, and she has accidents.
I did one energy healing session on her, and after just one, she stopped being scared of being in a car. When her parents picked her up, they were like “OMG she’s not trembling!” Lol.
The next time she came to stay with us, she had accidents again. She was scratching her skin to the point of hair loss and bleeding, and she was still pretty nervous. I let her mom know about the skin, because I do believe that trapped emotions were playing a role.
But this time, they didn’t want another session. They felt like it was allergies. I know there’s more to it…
And I felt sad, because I knew I could help this dog feel better, and it broke my heart to not be able to do so. She was also about to transition to another sitter’s house, (we weren’t gonna be available for their whole trip), so that means she’d probably feel stressed all over again and potentially have another accident.
But Then I Realized…
Energy healing is not for everyone. It’s for the ones who are ready for life-changing transformation. The Forces of Nature help people decide when they are ready for change. Most of us have to get so uncomfortable before we’re ready for change.
And it makes me realize I want to manifest clients who are ready for change.
Because who would you be and how would your life be different if you didn’t have to worry about your dog? How would your relationship with your dog be if they felt good? How would you have to change to meet this positive shift? What would you do with all that extra mental space? Do you dare to dream it?
There’s a readiness involved here, and I cannot rush that timing. And I wouldn’t want to either. This timing is bigger than me.
Perhaps somewhere inside of me I was not feeling ready, and it was getting mirrored back to me.
All I can do is respect their wishes, plant seeds for a better future, wish them well, and then let it all go. (And clear whatever resistance was living inside of me).
So I made peace with it.
Then Something Magical Happened…
In The Emotion Code, there are six types of trapped emotions. One of them is absorbed, which means someone else (human or animal) trapped an emotion and you then absorbed that same emotion afterwards (and btw - animals can absorb our human emotions too). Once you clear the trapped emotion for one party, it automatically clears for the other. I get excited thinking about this, because it once again emphasizes our interconnectedness on this planet.
Before this dog got picked up, I decided to do an Emotion Code session on myself. I found out I had absorbed a trapped emotion - panic. It was from this dog. She was panicked because I was packing up her stuff and she knew she’d have to transfer houses once again.
I cleared the emotion for me (which cleared it for her) and immediately afterwards, she came over and wagged her tail at me, like she could feel the weight of that emotion lifted and was thanking me.
I’ve experienced this with other dogs before too! Once I finish a session, they wag their tails, they come over and hug me. Rocco (my dog) looks like he’s thanking me with his eyes. It fills up my heart so much!!
It was like the universe was winking at me, saying, “yes, your gifts are needed.” And I told my spiritual bestie, Kay, about it afterwards, and she told me, “You are the magic.” ❤️
How to See Your Gifts As Valuable
You have to be willing to release old thought patterns, beliefs, and ways of being that stop you from sharing your gift with others openly. You have to be willing to release the fear behind being seen for your gift, being ready to offer it, being a go-to person for that gift, or even being paid for that gift, if that’s what you are wanting.
You have to release the fear of attracting people who might benefit from your help.
And you have to believe in yourself and the worthiness of your gifts. You have to believe there are others out there who are ready for your medicine. Because you are ready to offer it, and you can handle the responsibility.
If you want a new outcome, you have to be a new person.
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Your Gifts Are Needed
You’re here for a reason. You have medicine that other people would benefit from. It is by no accident that you were designed to be the way that you are. And your being here and expressing your gifts makes the world better.
If you can see that yourself, others will come into your life and see that as well. That’s the sweet spot. There’s nothing better than using your natural gifts to help someone - whether it’s a person, an animal, a being, or even Mama Earth. Seeing them feel better, do better, think better, and behave better – it’s like music to my soul. And it uplifts everyone around them as well!
So I hope this inspires you to believe in yourself and your gifts!! To believe you are ready to offer and receive back for it. And to believe that you can be paid for your gifts - if that’s what you want!!
You are needed, your gifts are necessary. The world is a better place when you offer up your gifts.
Thanks so much for reading along with me! I love you and have a wonderful week!
Love,
Angeli
"Your spiritual gifts were not given for your own benefit but for the benefit of others, just as other people were given gifts for your benefit." ~ Rick Warren
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